Bluefield Daily Telegraph, Bluefield, WV


November 1, 2012

From cocktails to coat racks, Holiday Hosting 101

Not everyone can be Martha Stewart. For the mere mortal hosts among us, holiday party planning can whip up stress and anxiety: Is my house inviting? Do I have enough chairs? What about food?

If the thought of entertaining sends you to the nearest couch with a bottle of aspirin, relax — we've compiled advice from some of the best party experts around.


"Parties give us the chance to suspend what's going on in our lives and give us space to be merry," says Danielle Rollins, the Atlanta-based author of the new "Soiree: Entertaining with Style" (Rizzoli).

The best way to create that space, she says, is to build tradition into your party and make it something people can look forward to year after year. Decide on a theme or an anchor activity — gingerbread decorating, caroling, ugly holiday sweaters — and specify a dress code on the invitation.

"It's fun to have an excuse to dress up," Rollins says. "You'll build excitement around the event if guests know what to expect."

Decor should echo the theme and reinforce the style of party you want to have. But don't feel you have to stick with a traditional holiday color palette or decorations. "Thanksgiving doesn't have to mean orange and Christmas doesn't have to mean red and green," says Rollins.

Lyric Turner, the owner of Red House Staging and Interiors in Washington, D.C., suggests introducing a warm color palette — burgundy, chocolate brown, purple and orange — through accent pillows, throws or curtains to create a festive look in an unexpected way.

"If you are going to bring in red and green elements to your decorating, keep the rest of your space neutral. A cacophony of color is too much," says Turner.

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